Jesus Wept

Jesus wept’: Finding God’s comfort when times are tough

By Joe Iovino*
November 13, 2014

The average week’s worth of news can seem so bleak sometimes.  It can feel like the rug has been pulled out from under us……

We all know people who have received devastating diagnoses, and others who were called into the boss’ office and in an instant were unemployed.

When we hear distressing stories like these, we turn to our faith for answers, but often the answers don’t come easily. There are mostly questions. What are people of faith to do in the midst of overwhelming tragedy and strife?

Jesus wept
The shortest verse in the Bible, in the King James Version at least, is just two words, “Jesus wept” (John 11:35). Though only 10 characters, too short even to tweet, that verse has tremendous significance, especially when we are struggling to find hope.

Jesus weeps in the midst of comforting his friends Mary and Martha who are grieving the death of their brother Lazarus. Yes, that Lazarus. The one famous for being raised by Jesus.

Jesus is out of town when he hears of Lazarus’ illness. Rather than adjusting his plans to go visit this friend whom he loves (John 11:3), Jesus instead decides to stay where he is for a couple of days. He tells the disciples Lazarus’ illness will somehow serve the glory of God, and that God’s Son will be glorified through it (John 11: 4).

By the time Jesus arrives, Lazarus has been dead four days. Mary and Martha, Lazarus’ sisters, are understandably miffed at the lack of urgency Jesus showed. In their own way, each of them expresses their frustration with him. They are convinced their brother would not have died if Jesus had come when he was first summoned (John 11: 21, 32).

There, watching the grief of this family and community, Jesus begins to cry. There is debate as to why, John doesn’t tell us, but I am convinced it is out of empathy for the pain of those he loves. In that moment, Jesus was feeling Mary and Martha’s grief, their sense of hopelessness, their pain and loss. So he cries.

There is comfort in knowing we don’t worship a stoic God. The God we know in Christ Jesus feels our pain and knows our loss. He weeps with us.

We also worship a God who can take our frustration. Mary and Martha vent, and so can we. As it is in any healthy relationship, we need to be open and honest with those we love, even when we are angry with them. If anyone can take it, certainly Jesus can.

It is also a comforting reminder that even while we are going through our pain, and Jesus feels far from us, it is not because he doesn’t love us. He loved Lazarus, the Bible tells us, even while not taking his illness from him.

New life
Lazarus’ story does not end with his death. At his tomb, Jesus calls Lazarus’ name and the crowds watch in disbelief as Lazarus emerges…alive. While Mary and Martha thought Jesus had come too late to help, we learn there is never a “too late” with God.

We may believe our situation is hopeless. We may not see a solution. We may not have a clue how to get out of the mess in which we find ourselves. In Jesus, though, there is always hope. There is always the possibility of new life, not just some day in the great by-and-by, but here in this life. This is the whole point of Jesus’ resurrection – new life today, and a new life to come.


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    John 6:60 Therefore many of His disciples, when they heard this , said, “This is a hard saying who can understand it?”(NKJV)

    What was the hard saying that many disciples did not understand?

    John 6:52-59 The Jews therefore quarreled among themselves, saying, “How can this Man give us His flesh to eat?”…….(NKJV)

    John 6:61 When Jesus knew in Himself that many His disciples murmured about this, He said to them, “Does this offend you?(NKJV)

    Was the problem with many of the disciples that they did not understand the Lord’s Supper? No, it was not. When Jesus was talking about giving them His flesh to eat it was in reference to His sacrifice on the cross.

    John 6:64 “But there are some of you who do not believe.” For Jesus knew from the beginning who they were who did not believe, and who would betray Him.(NKJV)

    The problem was not that they did understand nor believe in the Lord’s Supper. The problem was they did not believe that Jesus was the Christ.

    John 6:67-68 Then Jesus said to the twelve, “Do you also want to go away?” 68 Then Simon Peter answered, “Lord, to whom shall we go? You have the words to eternal life. (NKJV)

    Simon Peter said Jesus had the words to eternal life. Were the words to eternal life that you must participate in the Lord’s Supper every first day of the week? No. What did Peter say? (John 6:69 “Also we have come to believe and know that You are the Christ, the Son of the living God.”)

    The words of eternal life spoken by Jesus. Mark 16:16 “He who believes and is baptized shall be saved…(NKJV)

    If men are sent to hell it will be because they do not believe that Jesus is the Christ. If men are sent to hell it will be because they refuse to be immersed in water for the forgiveness of their sins.

    Does anyone seriously believe that men will be sent to hell because they only participated in the Lord’s Supper monthly, quarterly, yearly or on Saturday night?


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